Push back
Ellen approached me last night with a paper in her hand:
- “Mom, I have this thing that I don’t think you’re going to want to sign.”
- “Oh, yeah? What is it?”
- “It says, ‘I have received the assignment and will help my child fulfill it.’”
- “What? You mean they assume you need help before you even try?”
- “I know. I think I’ve got it down already. … Here, I’ll write on it, ‘Parent … does not … accept’ … or … what were you going to write?”
- “’Ellen doesn’t need my help.’”
- “Oh, ok. I’ll erase this.”
- Then Charlotte chimed in: “I know mom, you can say ‘I don’t help my kids because I think they can do it!’”
- “That’s right, Charlotte. That’s exactly right.”
Say it loud, say it proud:
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February 2, 2010 at 10:03 am
I LOVE this. You have so ingrained this message in your kids heads that they can do it, handle it, figure it out, whatever. She knew this was weird even before you said it. She wouldn’t have given it a second thought before Parenting on Track. Amazing.
February 2, 2010 at 10:26 am
I know. I’m so grateful for all the shifts we’ve made. So, so grateful.
And I just started reading your blog! I’m going to read it from the beginning…
February 2, 2010 at 10:57 am
Oh, I love it, I love it. This brings a (happy) tear to my eye. You have come so far, and I can’t wait to get there, too. Love your blog, it is really inspirational as we start our parenting on track journey.
February 2, 2010 at 11:15 am
So happy for you! You will be amazed. Stay in touch…
February 5, 2010 at 1:39 pm
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February 8, 2010 at 12:43 pm
do you have an rss feed on this blog? i’d love to follow it on my home page!
February 8, 2010 at 1:51 pm
I believe this is what you need. Let me know if otherwise…
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